Parenting Tips for Healthy Eating

Last post I discussed the difficulty some parents have with guiding positive change in their children's behavior with regard to health. For instance, when facing the task of limiting television time, many parents of overweight and obese children lack confidence in laying down the law.

I believe that uncertain parents simply lack a strategy, so last post I outlined a practical strategy for limiting T.V. time for children. It's fair, and it'll work if parents can stick to their guns. But like I pointed out in the post, it might be harder to implement with teenagers, as poor habits get harder to break the older kids get.

As promised, I'm posting some tips on establishing healthy eating habits for families. This was another area parents of overweight and obese kids lacked confidence in implementing. Some basic rules apply* when it comes to eating well, and they are:

• Eat primarily whole, natural foods--real food; not processed. Fruits, vegetables, real dairy (yes, butter), real meats, and low-glycemic carbs.
• Eat primarily at home. Eating out, no matter how healthy it seems, is still inferior to cooking at home. Believe that.
• Cut out soda--worst damn crap you can put into your body.
• Minimize the desserts--I know this is hard with kids, but you've got to keep the portions small. Two cookies (small to medium size) three times per week, and something more involved (cake, ice cream, whatever) one time per week is plenty to excessive. If you can avoid developing the habit from the start, even better. My daughter Delilah gets a small cup of ice cream once a week--that's it; she doesn't know any different.
• Keep portions moderate--it's my opinion that massive portions are the greatest contributor to obesity. Most Americans don't need half the food they are consuming. Bring it down, big boy.

That's it. Simple. But, as I've said before, this will be much harder to implement with teenagers. Teens have enough independence to make their own food choices throughout the day. This one simple fact may make it impossible to completely change their bad eating habits--the same one we've all had at that time in our lives.

But it's the little kids we can influence. They may still move toward unhealthy diets as teenagers, but I guarantee you by the time they go to college they'll remember what you've taught them as children, and return to eating that way. Guaranteed.

So that's a lot of responsibility you have parents. You can be soft and uncertain, or you can be firm and certain that you are teaching your children good habits which will last them a lifetime. Your decisions now, as well as your challenges, will shape their future. They'll thank you for it one day. I'm certain of that.

*For a more comprehensive list of healthy eating tips, read my book, The Six Keys to Optimal Health.

Hundred Years Old Might Be The Norm

Living to be one hundred may not be so unique in the near future. In fact, even chronic disease sufferers might have a shot. So says a new study out of the University of Rochester, proclaiming that diabetics and people with heart disease can also reach the centenarian mark.

The study, to be published in the Annals of Internal Medicine, interviewed over 500 women and 200 men who had reached 100 years old. Almost two thirds of the participants said they had avoided significant age-related ailments; however, the others had all had at least one significant age-related disease before the age of 39, but ended up functioning pretty well anyway, nearly as well as their disease-free peers.

Another larger study, conducted at Harvard, showed that men in their 70s who did not smoke, were not obese, were active, and free of diabetes or high blood pressure had a good chance of living well into their 90s with excellent physical and mental capacities. According to lead author, Dr. Laurel Yates of Havard's Brigham and Women's Hospital, "It's not just luck, it's not just genetics...It's lifestyle" that seems to make a big difference.

Yes! Yes! That's it! Lifestyle habits determine how you function. Lifestyle habits are integral to the way you feel. Lifestyle habits preserve life. Go figure. I love when these studies come out, because they verify everything I'm trying to get across to you. It doesn't mean you have to become Jack Lalanne; but practicing even two of the six keys to optimal health can have extraordinary benefits. In the Harvard study, they found that each risk factor decreased the chances of survival incrementally. So you must see that the opposite also applies: Every risk factor you eliminate, every healthy habit you adopt, will increase your level of health--and your life expectancy--incrementally as well.

But best of all is what the studies' authors point out: It's never to late to start. Adopting healthy lifestyle habits (and eliminating risk factors), even in to one's 70s, can have positive, life-enhancing effects. Get it? Never too late! So I'll let Dr. Yates finish it off with something I might have said myself, "Get your shoes on, get out there, and do some exercise," she said. "These are some things you can do" to increase the chances of a long life. Amen, Sister.

It's Never Too Late

It's never too late to start thinking about your health. So says a group of researchers at the Medical University of South Carolina. Adopting healthy lifestyle habits, even in middle age, can decrease one's risk of developing heart disease and premature death.

A study has shown that by practicing healthy habits - eating five or more fruits and vegetables every day, exercising for at least 2 1/2 hours a week, keeping weight down and not smoking - the risk of developing heart disease decreased by 35% and premature death by 40%. Researchers began tracking 16,ooo Americans between the ages of 45 and 64 in the late 1980s, and they found that people who did not practice healthy habits in the beginning of the study, but picked them up four years later, caught up to the people who were practicing healthy habits from the start.

No surprise here but according to the article "men, blacks, people with less education and lower incomes, and people with high blood pressure or diabetes were less likely to follow the health guidelines from the beginning or adopt them later in life." I find the same thing in my practice. I just don't understand why men wait so long to take care of themselves. Oh well, you can only lead them to water.